Does Your Love Blossom?

When looking within for a business name and change in direction I felt that I wanted my business to reflect support and trust. For a few days I wrestled back and forth with the idea of blossoming into action and that’s when Blossom and Rise came to fruition. 

When I think about love I immediately go back to the love we give ourselves. We are born into this life with love regardless of the situation we are born into because our souls were created in love, Universal love. With this said over the duration of life love sometimes gets misconstrued and we lose sight of true love. Recognizing love within ourselves first is where true love blossoms and when love blossoms we are able to rise.

I challenge you to blossom today so that tomorrow you may rise! 

I love you. I appreciate you. I honor you.

Amber Choisella 

He says I’m “too good” for him, what does that mean?

So… he tells you that you’re too good for him and you’re confused as to what that may mean? Oh it’s really simple what he means, he means, “I’m not 100% good with myself and I can see that you are and I don’t want to drag you down or hurt you because I will“, yeah that sums it up.

As young women, from personal experience, we always want to help these “men” recognize the good women that we are by being supportive, being there whenever needed, or even being sexually available for them because actions speak louder than words right? These guys will see how “down” we are or that we’re the “ride or die ” type right? WRONG, that couldn’t be farther from the truth. Men are pretty simple creatures. They don’t speak in code or in between lines and their actions will tell you how they feel about you… but wait.. didn’t you just read that actions don’t speak louder than words? Yes, but think about it if he  already told you what type of individual he really is, then is it really confusing as to why he won’t reciprocate or make a commitment to you?

Hurt people, hurt people. Take note and always remember this. Yes the vicious cycle continues until awareness is gained and then the real work can be done. What work you might ask, internal work. In order to love others, one must love them selves first. Another thing to think about when being hung up on someone who isn’t for our best interest is if it ever gets to the point where it’s ever confusing, it’s wrong. Dating shouldn’t be difficult if if is then wave and say Sayonara. Really it’s ok! Dating should be about spending time and getting to know another who is equally as interested and invested in getting to know you too! Masquerades can only disguise a face for so long after awhile the face will become too itchy and the skin will need to breathe, unleashing the REAL person underneath.

But let’s get down to the real reason why we find ourselves in these types of situations… if we keep attracting guys like this then it’s pretty obvious there’s something that they’re aiming to teach us. Think about it… in school if we don’t learn what we need to in each grade we don’t graduate to the next, why can’t it be the same for life? So if you find yourself in a situation like this where your relationship isn’t balanced whether it involve cheating, lying, abuse, or etc, think about what it is that they are trying to teach you about yourself, maybe then you will be able to understand “its” purpose in your life….

Learn and be happy above all else!!!

Amber Choisella

 

Appearance of Love

For years I knew what I thought how you would feel like.

Love, you’ve been so unkind and I wonder if you ever could

Ever be mine. Scars, disgrace, undermining, I believed that was you.

Love. I had to grow, had to learn self-love, personal truth.

My third eye opened and now everything is clear.

Love, you’re different but exactly who you should be.