What I’ve Learned from Providing FREE Services

Lessons, lessons, lessons, they can be found within all experiences if one looks deep enough for it. I was extremely nervous with going forward with providing my intuitive reading and counseling sessions so I started off by promoting donation based services. This was a great learning platform and there are two reasons why:

  1. I learned that I do possess the skills to do what I want to do.
  2. Charging will attract those who will value my time and be open to receive their message/s.

I did come across another Intuitive while providing a free session and I would’ve never met them had I not promoted this service so that’s definitely a positive note!

One day a couple of days before one particular reading I received a feeling. It surrounded my heart chakra and it left me feeling angry and frustrated. I knew it wasn’t my energy so when I tuned in  I realized it was from a client that I would soon be reading for. Not fully understanding what this meant I went ahead and did my scheduled reading with them. It turned out to be a negative experience due to the fact that the client was indeed angry and frustrated because of life circumstances. They would not accept the information I was giving and in the end they gained nothing, yet I gained wisdom.

Other Lightworkers have told me to add a monetary value for the services that I provide and at first I was really against it but now I understand.

With that said, I honor and value your time and trust in me, all I ask is that you value my time and trust I am servicing your highest best!

With love and light always,

Amber Choisella♥

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He says I’m “too good” for him, what does that mean?

So… he tells you that you’re too good for him and you’re confused as to what that may mean? Oh it’s really simple what he means, he means, “I’m not 100% good with myself and I can see that you are and I don’t want to drag you down or hurt you because I will“, yeah that sums it up.

As young women, from personal experience, we always want to help these “men” recognize the good women that we are by being supportive, being there whenever needed, or even being sexually available for them because actions speak louder than words right? These guys will see how “down” we are or that we’re the “ride or die ” type right? WRONG, that couldn’t be farther from the truth. Men are pretty simple creatures. They don’t speak in code or in between lines and their actions will tell you how they feel about you… but wait.. didn’t you just read that actions don’t speak louder than words? Yes, but think about it if he  already told you what type of individual he really is, then is it really confusing as to why he won’t reciprocate or make a commitment to you?

Hurt people, hurt people. Take note and always remember this. Yes the vicious cycle continues until awareness is gained and then the real work can be done. What work you might ask, internal work. In order to love others, one must love them selves first. Another thing to think about when being hung up on someone who isn’t for our best interest is if it ever gets to the point where it’s ever confusing, it’s wrong. Dating shouldn’t be difficult if if is then wave and say Sayonara. Really it’s ok! Dating should be about spending time and getting to know another who is equally as interested and invested in getting to know you too! Masquerades can only disguise a face for so long after awhile the face will become too itchy and the skin will need to breathe, unleashing the REAL person underneath.

But let’s get down to the real reason why we find ourselves in these types of situations… if we keep attracting guys like this then it’s pretty obvious there’s something that they’re aiming to teach us. Think about it… in school if we don’t learn what we need to in each grade we don’t graduate to the next, why can’t it be the same for life? So if you find yourself in a situation like this where your relationship isn’t balanced whether it involve cheating, lying, abuse, or etc, think about what it is that they are trying to teach you about yourself, maybe then you will be able to understand “its” purpose in your life….

Learn and be happy above all else!!!

Amber Choisella